Family Photo

Family Photo

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

the "pass"

when it snows and becomes cold, the mountain and its deadly "pass"...are, as they seem. mercy is given to no one. motorists are left to wonder at the cruelty.

this day began like any other. the first snow of the winter had begun to fall, but only an inch or two were forecasted. motorists everywhere, began to hop in their cars and head for the road that would take them over the "pass".

As the "pass" is neared, brake lights are seen, and the traffic begins to crawl. used to accidents and traffic delays, the motorists content themselves with the pace and start up the mountain.

the local geese see what lies around the bend. they scoff at the notion of what the motorists will find when the "pass" is reached.

"look, look", said one to another,
"long those people have been waiting,
for a chance at some skating!
if they only knew, oh brother!"

but, they didn't know, those motorists. work was awaiting, calls were coming, and for an unknown reason, the cars were at a halt.

10, 20, 30, and 40 minutes the motorist crawled, trying in vain to see around the next bend just what was up ahead. The radio announcers just said it was slow, but no further explanation did they know.

wait, wait, what's that up ahead? three cars slowly start up the pass. there is no accident, and not a flashing light can be seen. why, then oh why, what is that unseen?

It is the "pass." the deadly terrifying "pass." suddenly, a hint of what's up ahead is caught. three cars seem to crawl and then wobble.

"Is it slick up ahead?!" the driver excitedly notes. "oh, wow, it must be bad."

slowly, slowly, the pass is approached. it is realized with each foot that danger lies ahead.

suddenly the van directly to the front begins to swerve and fish tale! the driver hits the breaks. as soon as he tries to move he begins to lose control again. as he tries to go up and over the pass, he begins to slide from the left lane, to the right lane in onto the shoulder, where he stops-terror stricken.

from behind a large Fed Ex truck begins to swerve and lose control. it's then that the green Honda begins to swerve. to the right and then the left he goes. gingerly he tries to stay on the road. the driver's hands are sure, as the passenger cries out in terror. inch by inch the pass angrily taunts, "go ahead, try, you are foolish dots. dots of people in little cars, nothing to my awesome, mighty, slippery tar."

three other cars slide to the right shoulder as it becomes impossible to stay on the road. the Fed Ex truck works his way up, over the pass, and he beats it! a little 4-wheel drive Subaru has no fear of the pass.
the brave green Honda, and its driver and passenger have come to a complete stop. the road is terrifying! there are cars swerving in front and in back. the driver, in a brave attempt gets the Honda over to the left shoulder and put its wheels into the gravel! then, traction, blessed traction.

the Honda is finally allowed to rest his poor, cold tires, as the pass is cleared and the descent begins.

funny, the road, so normally busy with rush hour traffic, is quiet as one by one each car tries to beat the "pass." the light snow is enjoyed, as is the sanded road. how fun to drive over 5 miles an hour.

a little fear is felt when it's realized that the "pass" must once more be crossed later in the day. but, then it's realized; the "pass" has been beaten once, it can be beaten again!





*extra drama added for effect :-)
**Route 7's name is left out to protect its delicate sensitivity
***driver: Peter, screamer: Julie
****event: drive to work this am!

Friday, October 26, 2007

Mr and Mrs LaRock

Yep, we are back and we are getting back in to the swing of life as usual...sort of:-)

Life is different, but as I keep noting to myself, it doesn't feel that much different. Marrying my Pete just seemed like a very natural move. We're enjoying getting to know each other even better, and working at getting our cute little house to feel like home.

The wedding was beautiful! I don't think I could ever thank enough all who helped and participated.
The reception out here was really fun, too! We had a good crowd, delicious food, dancing and lots of socialazing.

We enjoyed our stay at Bethany Beach - thankfully the weather was in the 70's most of the week. We played in the sand, I got a lovely sun-burn, were very lazy for a week, and started getting used to being a Mr and a Mrs. I did brave the cool temps and got into the ocean twice; Peter, on the other hand, braved it just about every day.

Here are some pictures from the wedding. It's taking me a bit to get organized and some picures are still coming in; but, enjoy these, and there will be more!



Happy bride with her handsome groom:)



Ze bridal party



Moms and dads with the bride and groom!



Ushers with the bride and groom.



Peter and his best man, Paul.

Friday, September 28, 2007

Newness...

1. In 8 days, Julie Cole will be Julie LaRock - wow.
2. In 8 days, Peter will have....gasp...a wife!
3. In 8 days we each will have a new set of parents.
4. In 8 days we each will have a new set if siblings.
5. In 8 days, Peter will become an uncle!
6. In 8 days we're going to make some very permanent vows.
7. In 8 days we're going to each have a new ring.
8. In 8 days we'll probably laugh and cry a lot.
9. In 8 days God will be laughing and crying with us.
10. In 8 days we're going to face our fear of being the center of attention!
11. In 8 days Peter will finally be welcome to stay at our cute little townhouse.
12. In 8 days we'll dance for the first time as husband and wife.
13. In 8 days I get to show off the most amazing dress a sister could make for another.
14. In 8 days we'll all be really tired.
15. In 8 days our lives will be forever changed.

Really, can it be 8 days away?

Last night, I stopped to pick up my mail from the townhouse where I used to live. I found that a huge box had arrived for Peter and I from Bed Bath and Beyond. LOL, I tried heroically to get that puppy into my car, but it would not fit at all. Opening the box and emptying the contents seemed to be the only way to get it to fit. That worked, and now it's back at our house. Getting married is like Christmas in September!

I went home last weekend to try on my dress and such, and can I just say, it's beautiful! Jeanette has done a fantastic job - truly a labor of love. Pictures of it will be coming after the wedding;)

Amazingly I feel very calm about everything. There is just an endless list of tiny details that keep coming up, but project by project, they are getting done.

Gotta run for now.

Julie

Thursday, September 6, 2007

30 days!

Yes, it's true. We're tying the knot in 30 days. Crazy in a way the way the time is flying.

Our house is looking more and more like a home. Peter found an adorable kitchen table with 4 chairs. The kitchen just feels more like home now.

We finished the chair rail in the living room, and it looks amazing. Actually, I should say Peter finished it. I provided dinner and an occasional hand where needed.

We put our bed up in our room last night! It looks really pretty, too.
The new mattresses and frame were wedding gifts from his parents, and I have to say after sleeping on the mattresses last night, thank you! They are really nice! hehe, that's the beauty of living there now - I get to try everything out first:-)

Wedding plans are really coming together. I hear my dress is amazing, thanks to my amazing family. I get to try it on in two weeks when I head home for a weekend, yay! Can't wait to see it.

Peter and I are getting pretty excited!

Monday, August 20, 2007

Our house in progress

Our house is coming along! We have finished painting, excluding touch-ups, and the place is really starting to look great.

Here are some pictures of what will be our bedroom. We are going to be putting up chair rail around the middle of the room.





Here's a picture of the kitchen. I love the blue and off-white contrast.




The living room is done now, and I'll get some pictures of those colors up soon.

I've moved to our new house for August and September, and I'm finally starting to feel okay sleeping alone there. The first week, at times, the air conditioner would sound like someone opening the bedroom door. I would wake up with a jump, only to realize that nobody was there:-)

Joseph came over on Saturday and kept me company while I painted...that was nice. Then we went grocery shopping.
Last night I cooked my first meal in my little kitchen with the frying pan and the radio to keep me company, hehe. It was fun, though, and the whole house smelled yummy.

Oh, and Friday night Peter and I went on a for real date! That was fun:-) We haven't gone out as a couple for a bit. It was nice to have dinner together and talk to, be with, and focus on each other. My sister, Jeanette, told me that it is important, especially when planning a wedding and all that we are doing right now, to take time to just be a couple. I'm glad we did.

Little Lucy's is still as cute as ever! She had a shower on Saturday and got lots of really cute clothes. I really like this pic of Joanna and Lucy, so I'll close out this post with it:-)


J

Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Illinois trip

Peter and I went to Illinois two weekends ago to finalize wedding stuff, see my family, and see the corn. It's really tall there this year. Peter and I wanted to see if I could get taller than the corn if I sat on his shoulders and put my hands up as high as possible....


...almost!


Here we are again, playing in the cornfield:-)



While in Illinois, my aunt threw us a couple's shower. It was such a blessing! She cooked amazing food, many aunts and uncles came bearing gifts for our cute little house, and we topped the night off with a good game of nertz. Here we are on the way to our shower:-)



Wedding stuff and house stuff is going. Work is still crazy:-)

Peter's brother, Dave, is in the area, and I've been able to get to know him a bit. Peter, Paul, Dave and I met up with some friends Monday night and went bowling. It was fun. I really bombed the first game, but managed to pull in 3rd the 2nd game. Peter won the first game hands down, but barely pulled out a win over Dave the 2nd game. Good times, good times.

Gotta scoot for now.

Have a great day!

J

Friday, August 3, 2007

Be still and know that He is God...

Do you ever feel like life is going so fast, you are running just to catch up to your own shadow? I've been feeling that the past couple of weeks. Perhaps it's the purchase of our new home and the painting and preparation that entails. Maybe it's our wedding now just two short months away. Or, maybe I can blame it on busy season kicking in at work just as the busy conference season closes. My life sounds like this saying my dad once showed me: "I've gone to look for myself, so if I get back before I return, please ask me to wait."

The past couple of days I've felt very overwhelmed. I've found myself going down my mental list of wedding to dos, moving to dos, and house to dos while talking to various callers. Yesterday, I had several long phone calls. While listening and offering as much information as I could, I tried to work on some e-mails, but then the front desk would instant message me with another call on hold, someone would stop by my office, and my head would jump back to, invitations, guest list, flowers, tuxes, paint, boxes, packing...sigh.

This morning I met with my prayer buddy here at work, and we spent some time praying about life, and about our hearts. When I get busy, I have a tendency to put God on a back burner and take care of the more, "important things." As I took time to pray and seek the face of my God this morning, I was struck with the stupidity of the afore mentioned thought. What could be more important than time spent with my Father--the One who gave His very life because He saw value and worth in mine? I've been allowing myself to cut off the very One Who can bring my life and true peace and joy.

As I prayed my perspective began to change.

The wedding is a lot of work, I'll grant you, but I'm being given the opportunity to love someone with Christ's love for the rest of my life. I'm going to be able to learn each day what it means to love someone, and to be loved by someone. I've been given an amazing gift in my Peter, and it would be foolish to get so caught up in the "stress of planning a wedding" to forget this gift I've been given. He's the one, who through the busyness of our lives right now, asks to pray with me, and gently encourages and listens. While I want the day to be special, its importance fades as I think about the bigger, lifetime commitment I will make that day.

The house is work,but what a blessing to have a home together! What a blessing to have the time to get it ready to be lived in now; to paint it the way we want it, and to do it as a team. This is such a special time in our lives. Just last night we were able to look at our newly finished kitchen--pictures will be up soonish:-)

Work is work, but, it's also another opportunity to pour my life into ministry. Sometimes these moms, (and dads too) need to share with someone. It's a blessing to work in a place filled with people who love the Lord, who meet corporately twice each week to seek the face of God. My prayer buddy is one of my best friends, and I am so grateful that she's a part of my life. God has blessed me here.

I do have much to thank God for, and I need to spend more time doing so. I'm glad He reminded me this morning, "Darling girl, be still and know that I am God. Before the foundations of the world I knew you-I knit you together in your mother's womb. Be still, my child, be still."